1. Get ID verified. We’ve partnered with Proof to offer identity verification to safeguard the Pink Filters community. (Recommended, but not required. Cost: $25, paid to Proof)
2. Use the filters in the Member Directory to find potential friends.
3. Review the member’s profile thoroughly to determine if they are a match. Send or receive a friend request.
4. Ask them to get ID verified before meeting if it makes you more comfortable.
5. Set up a phone call with your new match to discuss your first meetup! Also, consider a video call.
Tips for the first conversation:
1. Relax. The first conversation doesn’t have to be difficult. You already know plenty about them to be able to keep the conversation easy and flowing. Just start chatting about anything – and then move into the agenda for your first meetup.
2. Avoid sensitive topics. Try not to have a deep discussion about anything too heavy. There are so many other points of compatibility that make a friendship gratifying and beautiful.
3. Have a few first meet up recommendations ready before the call. You already know their favorite foods and what type of outings they like from reading their profile. Offer up your ideas and set up a time and date to meet before you end the first phone call.
Safety tips:
1. Keep communications about your plans to meet in person on Pink-Filters.com.
2. Before you meet in person, let a friend or family member know that you are meeting with someone you met on Pink-Filters.com.
3. Give your Pink Filters username to that person.
4. Be sure to meet in a public place where you feel safe.